When beginning a brand-new relationship, lots of women (and guys too) tend to ignore some habits in their brand-new partner that do not bode well for the future. Then, down the road, comes the exclamation ‘If I had just known …’. As a Psychotherapist who has worked with primarily ladies and a couple of males in the field of Domestic Violence, during therapy sessions we can constantly trace back undesirable and dangerous character characteristics to the really start of the relationship.
Here are some ‘Red Flags’ to watch out for in a new partner.
He makes choices about where to opt for little or no input from you.
When the 2 of you are alone and might call you names, he belittles your viewpoint.
He makes disparaging remarks about you in front of others and may speak about you as if you were not there.
He may be rough during lovemaking and make you take part in acts you do not like.
He does not wish to hang out with your good friends or family and insists you socialize with his individuals.
He will not acknowledge your locations of competence and may put down what you carry out in the work environment – disregard any of your achievements.
He may honestly flirt with other ladies and then accuse you of being envious when you object.
He snaps and loses his temper over trivialities. Stays upset for an exceptionally long time and tries to blame all arguments on you.
May struck walls when upset.
One of the main aspects is that he begins strong in the start of your relationship – sweeps you off your feet – and wants a special relationship too rapidly. Many women feel flattered at the strength of the guy’s seeming requirement for an immediate connection and subsequently ignore the inappropriateness of it.
* This ought to not be confused with ‘love at first sight’ where one or both celebrations feel an immediate connection – with no of the previously mentioned habits. *.
There are many other factors that might be noted – but if the man in your life starts showing the above qualities – recognize it will not improve, just even worse. He will likely hesitate to discuss his feelings openly and feel that females are the inferior sex.
If this explains your male, run – do not walk – out of his life. The next step will likely be physical abuse.
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